It’s really odd for me to be inside the house on a beautiful sunny fall day, like yesterday. It’s even weirder for me to be watching TV inside the house on a beautiful sunny fall day. But the 49ers were playing, and if you know what’s been going on with the Niners, you’ll understand.
Plus, I was snuggled up next to Sean so even if you don’t know about the Niners, if you’re a woman, you’ll totally understand.
“Wow, those guys are friggin’ huge!” I said to him, noticing the size of the defense.
“They want them big.”
“But, that’s so unhealthy! Why are they so big?”
“Because no one’s going to get past them.”
“So, the teams are OK with that?”
“There’s a controversy around it, but yes, there’s pressure to supersize.”
Supersize? Guys who are 300 pounds are beyond supersize!
It’s amazing what people will do to their body for their career.
Like models. Despite some rumblings of rejecting the use of emaciated models on the runway awhile back, most models still are ridiculously skinny.
We hear a lot from women about the insanity of super-skinny models and how that affects girls — do men feel the same pressure about their body?
There seems to be some sexism going on.
OK, most men don’t need to pack 300 pounds to do their job well. But look at the covers of some men’s magazines and you’ll see what a man “should” like — broad-shouldered, narrow-waisted, totally ripped. Evidently, these images are now causing guys as much body image problems as women have. You just don’t hear too much about it.
Why do we, men and women, freak out about how female models have to starve to make it, women who are just “doing their job,” and not male athletes, who also have to put their bodies through intense modification to be successful?
If you’re packing 300 pounds you’re stressing your heart as much as a heroin-addict-like super-skinny model — either way, it’s just not healthy. But, as they say, it’s a living.
- Should we be as upset about what males have to do to their body to succeed as we are about women?
- Do guys feel pressured to be perfect from the impossibly perfect images on men’s magazine covers?