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		<title>By: Dan</title>
		<link>http://katwilder.com/2010/02/how-to-read-an-online-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-411</link>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 20:55:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lol, I&#039;m trying picture mama-Kat sending a near 40-year-old guy to the corner--and doing it in such a way that he obeys, smartly--and the visual just makes me grin...

Steve: 

That particular experience didn&#039;t happen to me, but it happened to another guy who wrote about it, I misremember where now.

The &quot;great convo advancing-to-sudden-flake-out&quot; is quite well known to me, however.

Another account I read was by a person who worked with a bunch of children-in-adult-bodies who worked at his company, who would loudly brag about setting guys up for dates, making them drive huge distances, only to stand them up, and then proclaim how ready they were to do it all again the next week.

I especially like the ego-cases on that site: They&#039;ll look and look and look at your profile, but the instant you try to make contact, the response is typically &quot;Unread/deleted.&quot; Then you log in in a day or two, and guess who&#039;s looking at your profile again?

I could go on and on, but that site and most of it&#039;s denizens--of both sexes--are either parasites with no class, honour, soul, or style; 

Or desperate, broken ex-party-sluts looking for a &quot;nice guy&quot; to sucker into helping finance the raising of some other douche-bag&#039;s kids.

P-of-F makes me want to vomit...
.-= Dan´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://midianlord.multiply.com/journal/item/112/The_Story_of_My_Life...&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Story of My Life...&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lol, I&#8217;m trying picture mama-Kat sending a near 40-year-old guy to the corner&#8211;and doing it in such a way that he obeys, smartly&#8211;and the visual just makes me grin&#8230;</p>
<p>Steve: </p>
<p>That particular experience didn&#8217;t happen to me, but it happened to another guy who wrote about it, I misremember where now.</p>
<p>The &#8220;great convo advancing-to-sudden-flake-out&#8221; is quite well known to me, however.</p>
<p>Another account I read was by a person who worked with a bunch of children-in-adult-bodies who worked at his company, who would loudly brag about setting guys up for dates, making them drive huge distances, only to stand them up, and then proclaim how ready they were to do it all again the next week.</p>
<p>I especially like the ego-cases on that site: They&#8217;ll look and look and look at your profile, but the instant you try to make contact, the response is typically &#8220;Unread/deleted.&#8221; Then you log in in a day or two, and guess who&#8217;s looking at your profile again?</p>
<p>I could go on and on, but that site and most of it&#8217;s denizens&#8211;of both sexes&#8211;are either parasites with no class, honour, soul, or style; </p>
<p>Or desperate, broken ex-party-sluts looking for a &#8220;nice guy&#8221; to sucker into helping finance the raising of some other douche-bag&#8217;s kids.</p>
<p>P-of-F makes me want to vomit&#8230;<br />
.-= Dan´s last blog ..<a href="http://midianlord.multiply.com/journal/item/112/The_Story_of_My_Life..." rel="nofollow">The Story of My Life&#8230;</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Kat Wilder</title>
		<link>http://katwilder.com/2010/02/how-to-read-an-online-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-410</link>
		<dc:creator>Kat Wilder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 17:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve and Dan — so glad you guys worked it out; I was afraid I was going to have to send you to your corners ...

Scott — well, that was an interesting test. But I&#039;m sure if women changed their picture and age to something younger, the same would happen. So, what are we saying here? And, why do so many guys pose with pictures of their cars!? Good Lord!

Jenni — Ah, great minds think alike. So, has that experience turned you off from online dating totally, or do you just keep pluggin&#039; along?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve and Dan — so glad you guys worked it out; I was afraid I was going to have to send you to your corners &#8230;</p>
<p>Scott — well, that was an interesting test. But I&#8217;m sure if women changed their picture and age to something younger, the same would happen. So, what are we saying here? And, why do so many guys pose with pictures of their cars!? Good Lord!</p>
<p>Jenni — Ah, great minds think alike. So, has that experience turned you off from online dating totally, or do you just keep pluggin&#8217; along?</p>
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		<title>By: Jenni</title>
		<link>http://katwilder.com/2010/02/how-to-read-an-online-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-408</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 22:18:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For me it&#039;s: picture, his age, his stats, and whether or not he&#039;s willing to date someone with kids. 

I have enjoyed the different men I&#039;ve met through online dating. But I have definitely not found anyone worth writing home again.
.-= Jenni´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://msjennixo-singlemom.blogspot.com/2010/02/i-have-been-sick-all-week.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me it&#8217;s: picture, his age, his stats, and whether or not he&#8217;s willing to date someone with kids. </p>
<p>I have enjoyed the different men I&#8217;ve met through online dating. But I have definitely not found anyone worth writing home again.<br />
.-= Jenni´s last blog ..<a href="http://msjennixo-singlemom.blogspot.com/2010/02/i-have-been-sick-all-week.html" rel="nofollow"></a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
		<link>http://katwilder.com/2010/02/how-to-read-an-online-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-407</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 16:25:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Dan

I&#039;m guessing from you use of the metric system that you are not in the US.

I hear yah about being stood up.  It hasn&#039;t happened in a long time, but I&#039;ve had plenty of conversations that were going great, we agree to a date, I ask them for a time and never hear from them again.

Why is it so hard for a grown woman to say &quot;no thank you&quot;?   Oy.   And women complain about guys who don&#039;t call after dates.  At least that isn&#039;t starting something and then dropping it.   

I guess I have it better.

I don&#039;t have to drive 100 km or more than a half hour for any date I can get.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Dan</p>
<p>I&#8217;m guessing from you use of the metric system that you are not in the US.</p>
<p>I hear yah about being stood up.  It hasn&#8217;t happened in a long time, but I&#8217;ve had plenty of conversations that were going great, we agree to a date, I ask them for a time and never hear from them again.</p>
<p>Why is it so hard for a grown woman to say &#8220;no thank you&#8221;?   Oy.   And women complain about guys who don&#8217;t call after dates.  At least that isn&#8217;t starting something and then dropping it.   </p>
<p>I guess I have it better.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have to drive 100 km or more than a half hour for any date I can get.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
		<link>http://katwilder.com/2010/02/how-to-read-an-online-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-405</link>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 00:55:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve: 

All I seemed to find there was how smugly impressed with themselves all the women were, and how us shaved-monkey men should be so thankful they even condescended to look at our profiles, let alone make us drive 100km to a date only to be stood up (one guy&#039;s experience. Many others like it, and much worse).

GTF over yourselves, you deluded skanks.

The dating pool, at least hereabouts, is a puddle of rancid, rotting grease, and I no longer care how that makes me sound.
.-= Dan´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://midianlord.multiply.com/journal/item/111/EVE_Online_Old_Storyline_Intro-movie&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;EVE Online: Old Storyline Intro-movie&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve: </p>
<p>All I seemed to find there was how smugly impressed with themselves all the women were, and how us shaved-monkey men should be so thankful they even condescended to look at our profiles, let alone make us drive 100km to a date only to be stood up (one guy&#8217;s experience. Many others like it, and much worse).</p>
<p>GTF over yourselves, you deluded skanks.</p>
<p>The dating pool, at least hereabouts, is a puddle of rancid, rotting grease, and I no longer care how that makes me sound.<br />
.-= Dan´s last blog ..<a href="http://midianlord.multiply.com/journal/item/111/EVE_Online_Old_Storyline_Intro-movie" rel="nofollow">EVE Online: Old Storyline Intro-movie</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
		<link>http://katwilder.com/2010/02/how-to-read-an-online-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-404</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 15:06:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Dan

My experience with OKCupid was not great.  The interface seemed more complicated than it had to be while missing out on some basics.

In my area most of profiles seemed to be from 20 somethings impressed with themselves for having discovered kinky sex and tattoos when the rest of the world, having no need for TMI, seems to have missed discovering those things :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Dan</p>
<p>My experience with OKCupid was not great.  The interface seemed more complicated than it had to be while missing out on some basics.</p>
<p>In my area most of profiles seemed to be from 20 somethings impressed with themselves for having discovered kinky sex and tattoos when the rest of the world, having no need for TMI, seems to have missed discovering those things <img src='http://katwilder.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
		<link>http://katwilder.com/2010/02/how-to-read-an-online-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-403</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 15:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Dan;

Dude, it isn&#039;t good to hold in your feelings, let it all out. LOL! :)

I haven&#039;t found anyone interesting enough on POF yet to have those experiences.  That site does something to the pictures were everyone looks worse than they are.  The owner is a bit of a control freak.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Dan;</p>
<p>Dude, it isn&#8217;t good to hold in your feelings, let it all out. LOL! <img src='http://katwilder.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t found anyone interesting enough on POF yet to have those experiences.  That site does something to the pictures were everyone looks worse than they are.  The owner is a bit of a control freak.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
		<link>http://katwilder.com/2010/02/how-to-read-an-online-profile/comment-page-1/#comment-401</link>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 19:52:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve:

Plenty of Shite is, bar none, the absolute worst collection of lying, phony, entitlement-princesses, scamming, F***ING WALKING GARBAGE I have EVER seen collected in one place.

Sorry, mate, but my pride and self-esteem took enough of a battering there, courtesy of all the cliche&#039;d broken ex-sluts looking for one man who wouldn&#039;t treat them like dirt, low-minded skanks who get off on having their pathetic little egos stroked at your expense, &quot;dinner-whores,&quot; and washed-up desperate single mums looking for a &quot;good man&quot; whose spine is shaped like a dollar-sign...

P-of-F is best avoided like the maggot-ridden heap of diseased filth it is. 

And if you give me a few minutes, I&#039;ll tell you how I really feel, lol!
.-= Dan´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://midianlord.multiply.com/journal/item/111/EVE_Online_Old_Storyline_Intro-movie&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;EVE Online: Old Storyline Intro-movie&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve:</p>
<p>Plenty of Shite is, bar none, the absolute worst collection of lying, phony, entitlement-princesses, scamming, F***ING WALKING GARBAGE I have EVER seen collected in one place.</p>
<p>Sorry, mate, but my pride and self-esteem took enough of a battering there, courtesy of all the cliche&#8217;d broken ex-sluts looking for one man who wouldn&#8217;t treat them like dirt, low-minded skanks who get off on having their pathetic little egos stroked at your expense, &#8220;dinner-whores,&#8221; and washed-up desperate single mums looking for a &#8220;good man&#8221; whose spine is shaped like a dollar-sign&#8230;</p>
<p>P-of-F is best avoided like the maggot-ridden heap of diseased filth it is. </p>
<p>And if you give me a few minutes, I&#8217;ll tell you how I really feel, lol!<br />
.-= Dan´s last blog ..<a href="http://midianlord.multiply.com/journal/item/111/EVE_Online_Old_Storyline_Intro-movie" rel="nofollow">EVE Online: Old Storyline Intro-movie</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 07:49:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Profiles are all fine and good..but if your a guy and your income isnt 100k or more on those profiles.. You will get 0 emails! I did a test.. income 35-50k 0 emails received and none replied too.  
 A week later.. changed my income to 100k or more..got 3 emails that day. Next day get one from one of the ones i sent to that never replied the week before. (told her thanks.. but i see how you work have a nice life :-) ) 
Now im not saying all women are like this..but it sure helps to have a BMW or a Porsche or a big bank account to date the women around here. Please no hate mail im not a woman hater..love everything about em just hate the superficial ones.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Profiles are all fine and good..but if your a guy and your income isnt 100k or more on those profiles.. You will get 0 emails! I did a test.. income 35-50k 0 emails received and none replied too.<br />
 A week later.. changed my income to 100k or more..got 3 emails that day. Next day get one from one of the ones i sent to that never replied the week before. (told her thanks.. but i see how you work have a nice life <img src='http://katwilder.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  )<br />
Now im not saying all women are like this..but it sure helps to have a BMW or a Porsche or a big bank account to date the women around here. Please no hate mail im not a woman hater..love everything about em just hate the superficial ones.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 02:42:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Dan

plentyoffish is free too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Dan</p>
<p>plentyoffish is free too.</p>
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