Comments on: As good as any reason to get it on? http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/ A divorced mom muses on life, love and single parenting Fri, 24 Feb 2012 20:49:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Car Sex | Dad's House http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-152 Car Sex | Dad's House Tue, 05 Jan 2010 11:29:38 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-152 [...] Courtesy Sex | KatWilder.com [...] [...] Courtesy Sex | KatWilder.com [...]

]]> By: dadshouse http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-151 dadshouse Tue, 05 Jan 2010 06:10:20 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-151 When I was in high school, I dreamed the hottie cheerleader would give me a courtesy f**k. Now that I'm middle aged, I don't want any courtesy. I want passion. The real thing. Though, if that cheerleader is still hot, I wouldn't say no... When I was in high school, I dreamed the hottie cheerleader would give me a courtesy f**k. Now that I’m middle aged, I don’t want any courtesy. I want passion. The real thing. Though, if that cheerleader is still hot, I wouldn’t say no…

]]> By: Travis http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-70 Travis Sun, 13 Dec 2009 18:05:13 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-70 Kat, here is my rule of thumb on "getting it on".... I wait, I wait so long and play and lead up, and get the thought building up in their minds, that I can honestly say that I have never received courtesy anything. I make sure that I walk away last. Kat, here is my rule of thumb on “getting it on”…. I wait, I wait so long and play and lead up, and get the thought building up in their minds, that I can honestly say that I have never received courtesy anything. I make sure that I walk away last.

]]> By: Dan http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-51 Dan Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:25:57 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-51 Kat--Given my experiences of being the token socially inept misfit/misanthrope, I should certainly hope I would, by now.... Kat–Given my experiences of being the token socially inept misfit/misanthrope, I should certainly hope I would, by now….

]]> By: KC http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-43 KC Tue, 08 Dec 2009 07:29:58 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-43 But you also have to think of him... he may not think that way... And once HE gets of... he may not feel the same way and THAT may send him into a crazy state of mind... and then Sara is the one in danger... Just a thought But you also have to think of him… he may not think that way… And once HE gets of… he may not feel the same way and THAT may send him into a crazy state of mind… and then Sara is the one in danger…
Just a thought

]]> By: Kat Wilder http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-42 Kat Wilder Tue, 08 Dec 2009 04:59:05 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-42 Honey — well, maybe having courtesy sex with a BF/spouse is a different category. It seems to be that's done as part of the relationship deal. A courtesy fuck with someone we feel "sorry" for is more like a power play. Dan — yeah, I understand that. But, would you always be able to know? Steve — we <i> all </i> resemble that remark! As for "everyone knowing what's going on," that's NSA arrangement. With courtesy fucks only the person <i> giving</i> it knows it. (Not that I've read "The Idiot's Guide to Courtesy Fucks," but I think it's one-sided that way, you know?) KC — Hmm, you bring up a point. But, who knows. I keep thinking of Woody Allen's comment in "Manhattan": "I've never had the wrong kind of orgasm, ever. Even my worst one was right on the money ..." Honey — well, maybe having courtesy sex with a BF/spouse is a different category. It seems to be that’s done as part of the relationship deal. A courtesy fuck with someone we feel “sorry” for is more like a power play.

Dan — yeah, I understand that. But, would you always be able to know?

Steve — we all resemble that remark! As for “everyone knowing what’s going on,” that’s NSA arrangement. With courtesy fucks only the person giving it knows it. (Not that I’ve read “The Idiot’s Guide to Courtesy Fucks,” but I think it’s one-sided that way, you know?)

KC — Hmm, you bring up a point. But, who knows. I keep thinking of Woody Allen’s comment in “Manhattan”: “I’ve never had the wrong kind of orgasm, ever. Even my worst one was right on the money …”

]]> By: Kat Wilder http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-1412 Kat Wilder Mon, 07 Dec 2009 23:34:42 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-1412 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">New blog posting, As good as any reason to get it on? - http://tinyurl.com/y86fqy9</span></span> New blog posting, As good as any reason to get it on? – http://tinyurl.com/y86fqy9

]]> By: KC http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-41 KC Mon, 07 Dec 2009 22:10:40 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-41 I think Sara would be doing more harm than good... although she may want to "get off" on fucking him.... a guy that is mentally "off" isn't going to see it that way... especially if he's lets just say, "not a ladies man"... and if Sara is anything close to being HOT, than all the more damage... once she fucks him, he's going to thing it's more than a "sport fuck" and may go NUTS.... and we read in the paper all the time about that.... I think Sara would be doing more harm than good… although she may want to “get off” on fucking him…. a guy that is mentally “off” isn’t going to see it that way… especially if he’s lets just say, “not a ladies man”… and if Sara is anything close to being HOT, than all the more damage… once she fucks him, he’s going to thing it’s more than a “sport fuck” and may go NUTS…. and we read in the paper all the time about that….

]]> By: Steve http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-40 Steve Mon, 07 Dec 2009 18:35:09 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-40 <i><b>It’s the “I think I’m about to do something stupid and I desperately need advice so I can ignore it and do the stupid thing anyway” look</b></i> I resemble that remark :) <i><b> “So are you saying you’re going to give him a courtesy fuck?” </b></i> I love that line! "courtesy fuck". It makes me think of fresh hotel rooms with little free bags of coffee in the bathroom, little bars of wrapped up soap.....and...."courtesy fucks". LOL! Seriously, I don't see what the problem is with your friend having the depressed dude just because she is attracted to him. As long as everyone knows what is going on and the wording of the invitation is cool...... It’s the “I think I’m about to do something stupid and I desperately need advice so I can ignore it and do the stupid thing anyway” look

I resemble that remark :)


“So are you saying you’re going to give him a courtesy fuck?”

I love that line! “courtesy fuck”. It makes me think of fresh hotel rooms with little free bags of coffee in the bathroom, little bars of wrapped up soap…..and….”courtesy fucks”. LOL!

Seriously, I don’t see what the problem is with your friend having the depressed dude just because she is attracted to him. As long as everyone knows what is going on and the wording of the invitation is cool……

]]> By: Dan http://katwilder.com/2009/12/as-good-as-any-reason-to-get-it-on/comment-page-1/#comment-39 Dan Mon, 07 Dec 2009 18:23:05 +0000 http://katwilder.com/?p=111#comment-39 From a male perspective: Um. No. Just, no. So call me old-fashioned, and probably too proud for my own good, but if I ever felt that I was on the receiving end of such, I'd tell the offerer (is that a word? It is now!) to stop insulting me and...a'hem...bugger off. From a male perspective:

Um.

No. Just, no.

So call me old-fashioned, and probably too proud for my own good, but if I ever felt that I was on the receiving end of such, I’d tell the offerer (is that a word? It is now!) to stop insulting me and…a’hem…bugger off.

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